We are back!

Hi everyone

once again, so sorry for not writing for a while, but pete and i have been on a bit of leave which has been really nice. After a very busy start with just 'stuff', we were finally able to kick up our heels and head to WA to see our relatives over there. Thanks to mum (WAMMA) for having us and to Robyn and Linds who also had us over for a night. It was great to catch up with you all. We visited new norcia, york, freo jail (at night) and did a bit of shopping. Its a great place to visit and we look forward to catching up with you all again soon!

Christmas was obviously difficult once again. While we set up our lights, we didnt do a tree again. I guess the right time will come, its just what we want for now.

We had a lovely opportunity to remember our only christmas with Eli at a memorial run by Silver Lining Funerals. We saw a grab in the paper which said that they were going to open up the chapel to families and friends of loved ones lost so we took the opportunity to go. It was an amazing service and the gang handed out a lovely little christmas 'tag' so families could hang them on their tree. I dont think i stopped crying from the moment i stepped into the chapel to the time i left. Very very moving and something pete and i could do to help us through this time. So to Tom, Dale, Pete, Rachel and the rest of the gang at Silver Lining Funerals, thanks for the opportunity, it was exactly what we needed.

The other 'tradition' pete and i have continued is that we will buy a gift for a little boy for the 'wishing tree' at KMART. we did it last year, and i must admit its bloody hard. We wandered around the toys and thought, geez, melon would have liked this...but i guess its something we will continue to do in the hope we make a 2 year old boys life a little brighter...

The other thing we would like to acknowledge is the life of Olivia. Olivia lost her battle with cancer on the 5th January 2009 at the age of 17. I met her mum Rhonda at the Challenge weekend in October and she (like all parents who have lost children) is just so inspiring. Rhonda has recently helped the 'chooks' with making some purses to sell at the markets, so thanks Rhonda for sharing your skills and your time at this trying time. Olivia will always be with you no matter where you are and will ALWAYS be loved and remembered.

Speaking of Challenge, the chooks are aiming to have a sausage sizzle out the front of Safeway in Bairnsdale on the 23 January 2010. More details to follow, but every cent raised will go to challenge. So come along and share a snag and a giggle and donate to a great cause. If you are interested in seeing what Challenge is all about, just head to their website www.challenge.org.au. They helped us out heaps while we were in hospital, and we will never forget the great work they do to help families that have kids with cancer.

The other thing pete and i are going to do is sign up for the Worlds Greatest Shave again (although we are not shaving heads!)...it will just be an opportunity for you to donate some money which will be in Eli's memory. We are not going to go hard this year...we need a rest to be honest! Maybe some collection boxes at strategic points, and if you feel inspired, we would encourage you to have a morning tea at your work places etc. to raise some money for the Leukaemia Foundation!

The last thing the chooks have been busily working on is our Angel Ball...we have set a date for the 24th July 2010 and it will be held at the Bairnsdale RSL again. More details to follow, but last year was an absolute HOOT! We are having a christmas in July theme, and of course, will be having our competition for 'best angel wings'...so start planning now! All money raised will be donated to AngelFlight.

If you would like ANY further information on anything, please contact me on Eli-Simpson@hotmail.com

Its been another really trying time for pete and i, like i guess all parents who have lost their little ones probably experience. It really doesnt get easier. There are reminders around you every single day of what you have lost and what you would do to have it all back. Having a healthy child is truly a priviledge. Embrace your kids with love and kisses and give all of them an extra hug from us!

We were given this poem from some good friends of ours - thanks liz and paul...

I thought of you with love today

but that is nothing new

I thought of you yesterday

and days before that too

I think of you in silence

I often speak your name

All I have are memories

and your picture in a frame

Your memory is my keepsake

with which I'll never part

your spirit lives within me,

forever in my heart.

Please, keep these poems coming. I collect them and write them in a journal which i keep about Eli. They mean the world to us and its lovely that you think of the Simpson family.

Lets hope 2010 is a brighter year for ALL of us.

luv and hugs

the simpsons

xoxox